Episode 127 – ETs, Multiple Dimensions and Controlling Your Reality

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Note: This blog post serves as an accompaniment to the corresponding podcast episode of A Changed Mind, where we’ll distill down the core ideas of this week’s theme, along with additional distinctions and insights. If you haven’t listened to the episode yet, you can go here to do so.  Enjoy.

We’ve been told that multidimensional beings are some far-off, advanced extraterrestrials—some higher intelligence watching us from above, maybe even on their way to save us from ourselves. And let’s be honest, in the swirl of global uncertainty, spiritual awakening, and collective questioning, that story can feel… kind of comforting.

But what if I told you something far more radical? You’re not waiting for a multidimensional being to show up—you already are one. That’s not a metaphor. It’s not a nice thought to tuck into a meditation journal. It’s the actual structure of your experience.

The truth is, every belief you’ve ever held—about yourself, your worth, your money, your body, your relationships—has generated a thread of reality. A dimension. And right now, as you read this, you’re living inside a matrix of those layered decisions. Not trapped in it—creating it.

So when life feels stuck or repetitive or like the same lesson keeps showing up in different clothes… it’s not because the universe isn’t listening. It’s because you’re still entangled in the dimension created by your old beliefs.

And the moment you recognize that, you stop waiting. You stop searching. You start building the dimension you were actually born to inhabit.

You’re Living in Two Dimensions at the Same Time

Most people think we live in one solid, fixed reality—the material world we can see, touch, and measure. But that’s only half the story. We’re actually operating in two dimensions at once: the physical and the imaginative. The material and the energetic. The external and the internal.

You are a multidimensional being not by theory, but by function.

At any given moment, you’re experiencing emotional, mental, spiritual, energetic, and physical realities simultaneously. These layers aren’t abstract—they’re built into you. The Hindus called them koshas—seven sheaths or layers of the self. We talk about them as chakras. Some people describe them as auras. These aren’t fantasy terms. They’re frameworks for understanding that your body extends beyond flesh and bone. You have a field, and it’s active.

But it goes even deeper than that. You don’t just experience multiple dimensions—you generate them. Every time you make a decision about life—whether conscious or unconscious—you activate a new thread of reality. And as a powerful creator, your external life begins to reflect those decisions. That’s why one of the fastest ways to change your life isn’t to “grind” harder or wait for fate to favor you—it’s to make a new decision about what’s true for you.

A decision about who you are. About what’s possible. About how life works. And when that happens, you’re not just changing your mind. You’re stepping into a new dimension. One where the rules are different because you’re different.

Decisions Create Dimensions

Here’s something most people miss when they talk about personal growth: not all decisions are created equal. You can decide to do something—start a business, leave a job, find a partner—and that’s powerful. But the real shifts happen when you make decisions about life itself. There’s a difference.

Deciding to start a business while still believing “making money is hard” is like trying to sail with your anchor still down. The external decision is in conflict with the internal dimension you’ve built around money. Same goes for relationships. You can decide to find your soulmate, but if you’re still carrying the belief that “all the good ones are taken” or “I’m too much” or “I always get hurt,” guess what dimension you’ll keep pulling yourself into?

Your reality isn’t just shaped by your actions. It’s shaped by the beliefs beneath them.

That’s why I’m constantly checking in—not just with my goals, but with the beliefs and emotional patterns that are running under the surface. How is life showing up for me? What’s my reaction to it? Those things give me insight into the decisions I’ve made, consciously or unconsciously, about how the world works.

And the moment I recognize one of those old, limiting decisions? I don’t try to wrestle it into submission. I replace it. I choose again. Because the moment you make a new decision—not just about what you’ll do, but what’s true—you begin to shift your frequency, your emotions, your actions, and eventually… your reality. You start broadcasting a new signal. And life responds. Always.

The Space Between: Why Reality Hasn’t Caught Up Yet

One of the most disorienting parts of personal growth is what I call the “in-between.” It’s that space where you’ve made a new decision—you’ve felt the shift, declared the change, maybe even had a breakthrough moment—but your external life hasn’t quite reflected it yet. You’re still waking up to the same job, the same bank account, the same relationship patterns, wondering, why hasn’t anything changed?

This is where most people give up. They assume the shift didn’t work. That they must have missed something, or that this whole “change your beliefs, change your life” thing is just another inspirational slogan with no backbone. But what’s actually happening is something beautiful and rarely understood: your new dimension is forming, and your old one is dissolving.

When you make a decision that shifts your identity, you split. One part of you is still plugged into the dimension built by your former beliefs—the one that says money is hard, love is unavailable, or success comes at a cost. But another part of you is now connected to a new reality, one governed by your updated consciousness. These two dimensions coexist temporarily. And in that overlap, there’s tension.

This is what I call dimensional lag—the natural delay between the internal decision and its external materialization. The universe isn’t punishing you. It’s reorganizing itself around your new instruction. But if you get impatient or discouraged and slip back into your old emotional patterns—doubt, fear, resignation—you risk reactivating the very dimension you just started to leave behind. That’s why staying loyal to the new decision is everything. Faith isn’t just a feeling. It’s a commitment to the unseen.

Your Life Is Made of Dimensional Threads

Here’s where it gets even more mind-expanding: you’re not just split between one old dimension and one new one. You’re actually living inside a vast web of dimensional threads—each one connected to a different area of your life. Your beliefs about money form one thread. Your beliefs about love, your body, your purpose, your worth—all threads. And within each of those realms, there are dozens of micro-decisions that shape the way your reality shows up.

Think about it. Maybe you’ve made great progress in your business dimension. You believe in your offer, your ability to lead, your value. But your health dimension still runs on outdated programming like “I never have time to take care of myself” or “I always burn out.” So even as one area of life begins to elevate, another can feel like it’s stuck on a loop. That’s not failure—it’s feedback. It’s the multidimensional nature of being human.

Your brain reflects this, too. The neural clusters that form around these beliefs function like mini-universes. They don’t just hold thoughts—they hold entire emotional realities. When triggered, they can pull you back into a past version of yourself, one you thought you’d outgrown. That’s why it can feel like you’re making progress in some areas while others seem frozen in time.

But when you understand that every aspect of life is its own dimension—its own interface—you stop trying to overhaul everything at once. You start listening. Observing. You ask, Which thread is calling for healing right now? And as you shift that one, the entire tapestry begins to reorganize. That’s the beauty of a multidimensional life—it’s not linear. It’s dynamic. And change in one area creates ripples across them all.

You’re Not Just in a Dimension—You’re Creating It

Here’s the truth most people never hear: you’re not just living in dimensions. You’re building them—actively, constantly, whether you realize it or not. Every thought you think, every belief you reinforce, every emotional state you allow to linger, contributes to the construction of a dimension you then call “reality.”

We often imagine that the truly powerful beings—the enlightened masters, the extraterrestrials, the ascended ones—are operating on a level we could only hope to reach. But what if the human being is the most multidimensional being in existence, precisely because of this rare ability to generate and collapse realities through consciousness? Most other entities, even in ancient esoteric teachings, are described as inhabiting dimensions. But humans? We create them.

Spiritual traditions from around the world have hinted at this. In the teachings of Rudolf Steiner, the realms we exist within—the physical, the etheric, the astral, and beyond—are full of entities. But what sets humans apart is our role as conscious architects. In Autobiography of a Yogi, there’s a powerful moment where Yogananda’s teacher returns from the other side to explain that while many beings inhabit these unseen realms, humans are among the few who can generate entirely new dimensions. And you do it every day. With your attention. With your focus. With your decisions.

You are not the passive product of circumstance. You are not at the mercy of your past. You are the builder. The weaver. The architect. And the life you’re living right now is the sum total of the dimensions you’ve constructed—some unconsciously, some by design. But once you realize this, everything changes. Because now you get to choose.

You’re the Architect, Not the Passenger

It’s easy to fall into the trap of waiting—waiting for the economy to shift, waiting for someone to discover you, waiting for a breakthrough, a sign, a miracle. But the longer you wait, the more you forget who you are. You weren’t born to ride along. You were born to steer.

So many of us grow up conditioned to believe that life happens to us. That struggle is random. That trauma is just bad luck. But what if every challenge you’ve faced—every betrayal, every heartbreak, every loss—was part of a curriculum your soul chose to grow through? Not punishment. Preparation. You didn’t come here to be a victim of your story. You came here to rewrite it.

And I say that not as a theory, but from lived experience. Over a decade ago, I was buried in addiction. Drugs, alcohol, self-destruction. I was lost, broke, and completely disconnected from purpose. But that darkness taught me something: I was still the architect. I had created that reality through layers of wounded belief—and if I could create that, I could create something else. Something entirely new.

That’s the power of free will. You are never stuck. You are never too far gone. The moment you remember you’re the one holding the pen, the story begins to shift.

Heal the Galaxy Inside You

Every time you shift a belief, you’re not just changing your mindset—you’re healing a galaxy within you. Think of each belief as a star, each emotional pattern as a constellation. Your inner world is a universe unto itself, and every act of healing brings that universe into greater harmony. This is the real work of transformation—not just achieving goals or fixing symptoms, but cleaning up the energetic debris left behind by old decisions.

The beautiful part is, you’re not doing this in isolation. We’re all co-creating this reality together. Every time you shift something inside yourself, it ripples outward. You show up differently in your relationships, in your work, in your family. You bring more clarity, compassion, and coherence into the collective field. And that gives others permission to shift, too.

It’s a sacred kind of domino effect. This is why personal development is not just a self-help project—it’s a planetary service. When you take responsibility for your reality, when you stop blaming and start creating, you become a stabilizing force in the middle of chaos. You start to upgrade not just your own life, but the collective dimension we all share.

So yes, your work matters. Your healing matters. You’re not just fixing your problems—you’re realigning the multiverse you live inside of. And the more you clean up internally, the more your external world starts to reflect the order, beauty, and possibility you’ve restored within.

Your Reality Is the Answer to Your Own Question

You didn’t stumble across these ideas by accident. You’re not reading this because of an algorithm or a coincidence. You’re here because, on some level, you’ve been asking. Asking for clarity. For power. For understanding. And this moment—this message—is life answering you back.

See, that’s how reality works when you begin to awaken to your multidimensional nature. You no longer see the world as random or disconnected. You realize that everything you encounter is a mirror. That what shows up in your field is a match to your focus, your frequency, your readiness. This post? This isn’t just something I wrote. It’s something you called in.

That might sound strange at first, but think about it: how many times have you asked for a breakthrough, for a sign, for a shift… and then someone says something that hits you right between the eyes? That’s not luck. That’s alignment.

Your life is already speaking to you. It’s reflecting back every question you’ve dared to ask. So if this message resonates—if something in you feels seen, understood, or even cracked open by it—it’s not because I said something profound. It’s because you were ready to hear it. Reality is responsive like that. It delivers what you’re prepared to receive.

Your Mansion Is Waiting—Go Furnish It

You may have heard the phrase, “In my Father’s house are many mansions.” What if those mansions aren’t somewhere far away in the afterlife—but dimensions, realms, and realities available to you right now? Not someday. Not when you’re more healed, more enlightened, more ready. Now.

You are already living in one of those mansions. You built it. You filled it with the beliefs, assumptions, emotional patterns, and stories you’ve carried—some inherited, some chosen. But here’s the powerful truth: you don’t have to keep living in a mansion that doesn’t feel like home. You can redecorate. Renovate. Or walk out the front door and build a new one from the ground up.

You are the kingdom. You are the mansion. You are the one with the keys. So furnish it. Not with fear, not with doubt, not with recycled stories that no longer serve you—but with beauty, clarity, vision, faith. You’re not just visiting this life. You’re shaping it in every moment with your focus and your frequency. And if you don’t like the view? Shift the dimension.

This is your invitation to stop waiting and start creating. To stop rehearsing old realities and step into the one that’s calling you forward. You’re not here to survive this world. You’re here to reimagine it—from the inside out. Now go furnish your mansion.