Episode 071 – Why Law Of Attraction Isn’t Working For You… And How To Fix It
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Note: This blog post serves as an accompaniment to the corresponding podcast episode of A Changed Mind, where we’ll distill down the core ideas of this week’s theme, along with additional distinctions and insights. If you haven’t listened to the episode yet, you can go here to do so. Enjoy.
In this episode, David Bayer addresses a common struggle with the Law of Attraction: the frustration when desires seem to manifest, but the results don’t meet expectations. He explains that when people aim for something—whether it’s a business goal, a soulmate, or improved health—initial signs may appear aligned, but eventually, things might fall apart, leading to disappointment.
Bayer emphasizes that this frustration is a natural part of the manifestation process. He shares personal experiences where he and his wife encountered similar frustrations while building their business, especially in finding the right marketing and sales support. In each instance, they found potential solutions, only for them to fail, creating moments of doubt and confusion. However, over time, these setbacks helped them clarify exactly what they were looking for, ultimately leading them to the right solution.
Bayer argues that these disappointments are not failures but part of a “fine-tuning” process, where the universe gradually brings you closer to your ideal outcome by refining your understanding of what you truly need. He highlights the importance of remaining in a state of “non-resistance,” which allows you to stay open to new opportunities and continue moving forward without getting stuck in frustration.
Ultimately, Bayer’s key message is that desire, combined with non-resistance, leads to the desired result. He encourages viewers to view obstacles as part of the process and to trust that better solutions are always on the way.